Escort Terminology: What You Need to Know

Escort Terminology: What You Need to Know

 

The world of escort services can seem complex for those because of all the jargon it’s filled with. As a client, you must understand the common terms and abbreviations used in the industry to ensure clear communication and avoid misunderstandings. Here you will find everything you need to know to confidently navigate the world of sex services. 

Common Abbreviations

Let’s start with some common escort abbreviation terms and their meanings:

Abbreviation

Term

Description

BBBJ

Bareback Blow job

Oral sex performed without a condom.

BBFS

Bareback Full Service

Sexual intercourse without a condom.

BDSM

Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism

A variety of erotic practices involving bondage, dominance, submission, and sadomasochism.

CIM

Cum In Mouth

Ejaculation into the mouth.

CBJ

Covered blow job

Oral sex when a guy is wearing a condom

DATY

Dining At The Y

Performing oral sex on a woman.

DFK

Deep French Kissing

Passionate kissing with tongue.

Duo

Duo

Service involving two prostitutes.

GFE

Girlfriend Experience

The escort provides a more intimate and personal experience similar to that of a girlfriend.

Inc

Incall

Escort service provided at the escort’s location.

O

Outcall

Escort service provided at the client’s location.

LT

Long Time

Extended service, typically overnight or for several hours.

MP

Massage Parlor

An establishment offering erotic massages, often with additional sexual services.

MSOG

Multiple Shots On Goal

Ability to have multiple sexual encounters within a single session.

PSE

Pornstar Experience

Mimics the experience of being with a porn star, often including more explicit acts.

Rimming

Rimming

Oral stimulation of the anus.

TPE

Total Power Exchange

A BDSM relationship where one partner completely surrenders control to the other.

U

Overnight

Service provided overnight.

Ind

Independent

An escort who operates independently rather than through an agency.

Tour

Tour

When an escort travels to different cities or locations to provide services.

BBW

Big Beautiful Woman

An prostitute who is larger or plus-sized.

Now, let’s teach you about some popular services you can get from an escort provider. 

GFE Service Meaning

Girlfriend Experience (GFE) refers to a type of service where the escort provides a more intimate and personal experience, similar to what one might expect from a romantic relationship. 

Unlike more straightforward or transactional services, GFE focuses on building a connection and creating a comfortable, affectionate environment for the client. The specifics of GFE can vary, but it typically includes the following elements:

 

  • Emotional Connection: GFE involves creating a sense of companionship and emotional intimacy. 
  • Affectionate Behaviors: This might include holding hands, cuddling, deep kissing (DFK – Deep French Kissing), and other tender gestures that create a romantic atmosphere.
  • Non-Sexual Activities: GFE often includes spending time together in non-sexual activities, such as dining out, watching movies, or attending events.
  • Sexual Intimacy: While the sexual aspect of GFE is typically less explicit and more natural, it still includes sexual activities. 
  • Comfort and Care: GFE aims to make the client feel valued and cared for, offering a level of emotional support and understanding that goes beyond mere physical attraction.

GFE is often more expensive than standard offerings due to the added time and emotional investment required.

Oral Services

Oral services encompass a variety of practices and preferences. Oral sex refers to the stimulation of the genitalia using the mouth, lips, and tongue. 

This can be performed on both males and females and is often part of a broader sexual experience. Oral sex can be a standalone service or part of a package. The variety of oral practices is quite impressive:

  • Deep-Throat: An advanced technique where the performer takes the entire length of the penis into their throat, minimizing the gag reflex. 
  • OWO (Oral Without Condom): Involves performing oral sex on a male without the use of a condom, offering a more natural sensation.
  • CIM: The recipient allows the partner to climax in their mouth, which may or may not include swallowing the semen.
  • Reverse-Oral: Also known as Cunnilingus, involves the stimulation of a woman’s genitalia using the mouth, lips, and tongue. 
  • Teabagging: A form of oral sex where the testicles are placed into the partner’s mouth, typically one at a time, in a manner reminiscent of dipping a tea bag into hot water. 
  • Facial: Involves the male ejaculating onto the partner’s face. 
  • Fire and Ice: A unique oral technique involving the use of temperature contrasts to enhance sensation, such as ice cubes or warm liquids. 
  • French: Involves passionate kissing, which can be a prelude to or part of the overall oral experience, adding intimacy and connection.
  • Swallowing: Swallowing is the act of ingesting semen after oral sex that includes ejaculation in the mouth.

Anal Services

Anal services involve various forms of anal play and penetration. Popular anal services include:

  • Anal: Anal sex involves the penetration of the anus with a penis or sex toy. 
  • DP (Double Penetration): Involves the simultaneous penetration of the vagina and anus by two partners. This can be performed with two males or using a combination of a male partner and a sex toy. 
  • AR (Anal Rimming): Also known simply as rimming, involves the oral stimulation of the anus using the lips and tongue. 
  • ATM (Ass to Mouth): This means that the penis is moved directly from the anus to the mouth. 
  • A-Level: A term used to describe services that include anal sex. Escorts who offer A-Level services are comfortable and experienced in providing anal intercourse as part of their repertoire.

What is Greek in Sex Terms?

The term “Greek” is used as a discreet way to mention anal sex without being explicit. This is especially useful in contexts where direct language might be considered inappropriate or censored.

 

Escorts who list “Greek” in their services are indicating that they are willing to engage in anal sex. This helps clients understand what types of experiences are available without ambiguity.

Fetish Services

Fetish services cater to specific desires and preferences that go beyond conventional sexual activities. These are designed to fulfill particular fantasies and can vary widely in terms of the practices involved. 

  • Foot Fetish: Involves the erotic stimulation of feet. This can include foot massages, kissing, licking, and sucking toes, as well as worshipping and adoring the feet. Some clients may also enjoy the sight of feet in specific types of footwear.
  • Spanking: Involves hitting the buttocks with a hand, paddle, or other implements to create a pleasurable sensation. This practice can be part of a BDSM scenario or simply a standalone fetish.
  • Fisting: Fisting refers to the insertion of a hand into the vagina or anus. This service requires significant trust, communication, and preparation due to its intensity. Proper lubrication and gradual progression are crucial for safety and comfort.
  • Watersports: Watersports, also known as urolagnia, involve the erotic use of urine. This can include urinating on a partner or being urinated on.
  • Golden Shower: A golden shower is a form of watersports where one person urinates on another, usually as part of a domination/submission scenario.
  • Squirting: Female ejaculation that involves the expulsion of fluid from the female urethra during sexual arousal or orgasm. Some clients are specifically interested in witnessing or experiencing this phenomenon.
  • Dirty Talk: Involves the use of explicit, erotic, or provocative language during sexual activities. This can enhance sexual desire and create a more intense experience. 

BDSM Services

BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism) encompasses a variety of practices: 

  • Domination: Domination involves a Dominant exerting control over a submissive through commands, punishment, and scenarios requiring obedience. This can be both physical and psychological.
  • Bondage: Bondage refers to restraining a partner using ropes, cuffs, or straps to create a sense of helplessness. It is often combined with other BDSM practices for heightened sensations.
  • Strapon: Strapon play involves the Dominant wearing a harness with a dildo to penetrate the submissive, either anally or vaginally, emphasizing control and dominance.
  • Mistress: A Mistress is a female Dominant who controls and disciplines a submissive, incorporating various BDSM activities like humiliation, foot worship, and spanking.
  • Sensory Deprivation: Sensory deprivation limits one or more senses to heighten the remaining ones, using tools like blindfolds and earplugs to increase anticipation and arousal.
  • Impact Play: Impact play includes striking the submissive with hands, paddles, or whips. The intensity can vary based on preferences and agreed-upon limits.
  • Role Play: Role play involves acting out scenarios and characters to fulfill fantasies, such as teacher/student or master/slave, often incorporating domination and submission elements.
  • Humiliation: Humiliation involves verbal or physical actions that embarrass or degrade the submissive within a consensual context, often part of a BDSM scene.
  • CBT (Cock and Ball Torture): CBT involves inflicting pain or discomfort on the male genitalia through squeezing, slapping, or other methods, requiring careful attention to safety.
  • Edge Play: Edge play includes high-risk activities like knife play and breath play. It requires thorough negotiation, trust, and experience due to its intensity and potential danger.

Role Play and Uniforms

Role play and uniforms are popular services since they allow clients to explore fantasies and scenarios that involve specific roles and attire. Common role-play scenarios include:

  • Teacher/Student: The prostitute plays a strict teacher who disciplines or instructs the client, who assumes the role of a student.
  • Doctor/Patient: The prostitute acts as a doctor conducting an intimate examination on the client, who plays the patient.
  • Boss/Employee: The prostitute takes on the role of a dominant boss, while the client is the submissive employee.
  • Master/Slave: This involves a BDSM dynamic where the prostitute (Master or Mistress) exercises control over the client (slave), often incorporating elements of domination and submission.

Role play can be as detailed as both parties desire, including scripted dialogue, specific actions, and costumes that align with the chosen scenario.

Uniforms

Uniforms add a visual and psychological element to role play, enhancing the fantasy by creating a specific character or authority figure. Common uniforms used in these services include:

  • Nurse: A classic role play involving medical scenarios.
  • Police Officer: Often used in dominance and authority-based fantasies.
  • Maid: This can involve service-oriented role play or submissive scenarios.
  • Military: Incorporating elements of discipline and authority.
  • Schoolgirl/Schoolboy: Tied to the teacher/student fantasy, emphasizing youth and innocence.

Tie-And-Tease

Tie-and-Tease combines elements of bondage and teasing to heighten arousal and anticipation. Here’s what it typically involves:

  • Bondage: The client is lightly restrained using ropes, cuffs, or other bondage equipment. The level of restraint can vary based on comfort and consent.
  • Teasing: The escort engages in various teasing activities, such as light touches, kisses, or verbal teasing, without immediately allowing full sexual satisfaction. This builds anticipation and excitement.
  • Control: The escort maintains control over the pace and intensity of the teasing, prolonging the client’s arousal and enhancing the overall experience.

Tie-and-Tease is about balancing restraint and sensual stimulation, making it a favorite for those who enjoy power play and heightened sensory experiences.

Striptease

A striptease is a sensual dance where the prostitute gradually removes their clothing, creating an erotic and visually stimulating experience. The service can be tailored to individual preferences and include music, light physical interaction, and a specific type of clothing.

Group Activities

Group activities involve multiple participants and can encompass a variety of scenarios, from intimate gatherings to large, organized events. 

Parties

Parties in the context of sex services refer to social gatherings where multiple escorts and clients come together to interact in a casual or themed setting. These can be private parties, themed parties, or social gatherings that focus on socializing, with opportunities for clients to mingle with escorts in a relaxed environment. 

Group Sex

Group sex involves sexual activities with multiple participants. This can take the forms of threesomes (three participants), foursomes (four participants), and swinging (couples engage in sexual activities with other couples or individuals). 

Couples

Escorts can provide services to couples looking to explore new fantasies or add excitement to their relationship. This can include watching them perform, engaging in sexual activities with the escort together, or even receiving guidance on new sexual techniques.

Some couples seek expertise in exploring BDSM, role play, or other fetishes, providing a safe and controlled environment to try new experiences.

Gangbang

A gangbang is a sexual encounter where one person (often an escort) engages in sexual activities with multiple partners, usually men, at the same time. Key aspects of a gangbang include. Gangbangs, require clear communication and coordination to ensure the comfort and safety of all participants.